When I was in the dating scene and started having sex, thanks to the media and america's quick ability to stereotype & label everything I thought I had fallen into this trap of "being easy cause i'm overweight & thus desperate" Truth is, after I realized it, I wasn't desperate, I was actually interested these people and rather than "play the game" I unabashedly gave them me, all of me. I'm honest and bluntly would rather not hide anything from someone I genuinely liked and ironically didn't have a "type" so to an outsider it seemed like this was me.
But that's so wrong! wuhahahahaa!!!! Thankfully, I've dated enough to now have a "type" as I know what I'm looking for in a partner. But I think I have been apart of situations like this where the guy figured I was easy as he'd disappear after some time (getting what he wanted) and totally crush me. So if I had to be "labeled" it would be that I just fall, hard fast and completely for a guy I'm enthralled by..ie. hopelessly romantic? idk, maybe that's what they're called.
sorry to vomit my baggage here but I guess this hit a topic for me and who knows, maybe someone will read this and relate.
In America I've noticed the amount of body self esteem differs in the regions. Where the norm is heavy and thin is a rarity, yea, big women are easy 1) cause there are more of them, 2) they want to be like the thin women and think that's what the men want. In the areas where the opposite are true it's the thin women who have more body issues often times trying to make themselves fatter (hoping it also goes up into the boob area) so there the skinny women are easy. It's all relative.
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When I was in the dating scene and started having sex, thanks to the media and america's quick ability to stereotype & label everything I thought I had fallen into this trap of "being easy cause i'm overweight & thus desperate" Truth is, after I realized it, I wasn't desperate, I was actually interested these people and rather than "play the game" I unabashedly gave them me, all of me. I'm honest and bluntly would rather not hide anything from someone I genuinely liked and ironically didn't have a "type" so to an outsider it seemed like this was me.
But that's so wrong! wuhahahahaa!!!! Thankfully, I've dated enough to now have a "type" as I know what I'm looking for in a partner. But I think I have been apart of situations like this where the guy figured I was easy as he'd disappear after some time (getting what he wanted) and totally crush me. So if I had to be "labeled" it would be that I just fall, hard fast and completely for a guy I'm enthralled by..ie. hopelessly romantic? idk, maybe that's what they're called.
sorry to vomit my baggage here but I guess this hit a topic for me and who knows, maybe someone will read this and relate.
In America I've noticed the amount of body self esteem differs in the regions. Where the norm is heavy and thin is a rarity, yea, big women are easy 1) cause there are more of them, 2) they want to be like the thin women and think that's what the men want. In the areas where the opposite are true it's the thin women who have more body issues often times trying to make themselves fatter (hoping it also goes up into the boob area) so there the skinny women are easy. It's all relative.